Over the years I have found that truck drivers are the BEST story tellers. Our dear friend “Uncle Darrell” Hicks is one of those storytellers, and boy does he ever have some good ones to tell. Darrell started out trucking in the “conventional” way, hauling pleasure boats and other freight, but later, his trucking career took an “unconventional” turn. Darrell has been involved with the trucking industry his entire life, but only a small portion of that career actually included hauling freight in a big rig.
Darrell often says he is “just a farm boy from Michigan” and that might be true, but that farm boy has done some amazing things in his 50-year career! And for most of that time (45 years), his beautiful wife Melva has been at his side every mile of the way – and Darrell wanted to thank her for that.
It all got started when Darrell got to ride with a friend and his dad delivering trailers to dealers (the kids were dropped off before they got to the dealers so they wouldn’t know children were riding along). His first trip was to Newport News, VA while the Ohio Turnpike was still being built. The first tunnel he ever saw was on the Pennsylvania Turnpike. Darrell’s next trip was to Massachusetts. On the way home, they got to travel through a portion of Ontario, Canada (between Buffalo, NY and Port Huron, MI). At that time, Darrell was 12 years old and trucks and travel had already sparked an interest in him – and it was a spark that turned into a fire.
I was fortunate to get to talk with Darrell’s older sister Ardis Meyer, and when I asked her about Darrell she told me, “He was a pain in the neck – a pest. And when he was born, he stole all my attention!” She was six and perfectly happy being an only child, but when Darrell came along, everything changed. At the Cedar Lake Academy, where Darrell attended high school, the Dudley Paper Company sold paper supplies to the school. The salesman was a happy guy who called himself “Uncle Dudley” (Darrell doesn’t even know what his real name was). Later, when he got involved with the Trucker Buddy program, Darrell started calling himself “Uncle Darrell” hoping that he could make the same kind of impact on the kids in the schools that “Uncle Dudley” had made on him.
During college, Darrell drove for a contractor working on I-96. In January of 1963, he dropped out of college to haul pleasure boats out of Michigan. A year later, Darrell was forced to make the choice between going back to college or getting drafted, so back to school he went, but he continued to haul the boats and shuttle cars to the auto auctions in Chicago part time. Somehow, Darrell managed to graduate, but he was almost late for the ceremony because he was out hauling a load. Not long after that, while driving for Easley Hauling Service out of Yakima, WA, Darrell got drafted. After the Army Induction Center in Spokane worked him over for a few weeks, they sent him home due to a spine injury he had received when he was 18.
After Melva finished her training as a registered dietician, she was recruited by Hinsdale Hospital near Chicago. It was while they were living there that Darrell became involved in Prestone Automotive Products. In 1969 he started working as a salesman and a technical trainee in engine cooling, taking advantage of all the training they made available to him. Back in those days, salesman did more than just sell – they personally visited customers about their products and/or packaging failures. He probably made a customer for life when he personally cleaned the trunk liner of a lady’s car who had experienced a package failure (you just don’t see customer service like that anymore). Part of Darrell’s job back then was also to test trucks and record all the data. Unfortunately, all those stories are still classified as “confidential” so Darrell can’t share them with us.
In 1980 Darrell attended his first TMC meeting. The ATA Technology & Maintenance Council (TMC) is a group of industry professionals who work to improve truck equipment and technology. TMC has also developed recommended practices that are used by fleet managers to specify and maintain vehicles. The council’s “industry best practices” also provide guidance to manufacturers in the design of their equipment. TMC began in 1956 when a small but select group of maintenance directors sat down with representatives from the manufacturing community to discuss truck maintenance problems. Since then, TMC has grown into an organization of more than 2,600 members with representatives from every sector of the industry, and Darrell has been very involved since joining.
In 1994 Darrell met Gary King, founder of the Trucker Buddy program, and even though Darrell wasn’t a driver at the time, he was still able to get a class (he had access to trucks and trailers that he could take to his classes). And, of course, he had plenty of stories to share with his “kids” about his travels.
Over the years, “Uncle Darrell” got very involved with Trucker Buddy, which is a nonprofit organization that matches professional drivers with elementary students to correspond with each other, and to bring the transportation industry into the classroom. Darrell was not only on the Board of Directors, but he also served as President of Trucker Buddy International for four years, and he is currently an advisor to TBI. Darrell is proud of his association with this great organization and, as he says, “We will never know just how many kids this program has and will continue to touch.”
In 1996 Darrell founded “Truck Day” at the Arkansas School for the Blind in memory of a blind friend. The students there were able to “see” the trucks and trailers for a day, and like all of the other kids in his other classrooms, Uncle Darrell realized that their favorite thing to do was to blow the horn!
Our mutual friend Paul Abelson told me that he has been following Darrell’s advice and lead since meeting him at the first TMC meeting he attended in 1984. At that meeting, Darrell pulled Paul aside and suggested that he get involved, telling him, “It’s the only way you’ll amount to something in this group, and this group is where things happen in our business.” As an industry supplier, Paul could see the wisdom in his words. At that first meeting, Paul found a friend and a mentor. His new mentor preceded him through the “honors” at TMC. Darrell became a Recognized Associate, earned a Silver Spark Plug Award in 1992, and was the second-ever recipient of TMC’s Gerri Murphy Award for his lifetime of efforts helping the TMC develop.
Following in Darrell’s big footsteps, Paul got involved beyond TMC, too. Paul said, “Darrell introduced me to Gary King after I became a writer so I could do a story on Gary’s new organization, Trucker Buddy. Through Darrell’s efforts, he and I became involved with the group, first on the Board of Advisors, then as Directors. We both expanded our horizons and got involved with NAST (National Association of Show Trucks) during its inception. Darrell always established his presence through the strength of his personality and made his mark through his wisdom and insight. Whenever I think of Uncle Darrell, the words “get involved” come to mind. It was great advice then, and it still is today.”
Now retired and living in Tulare, CA, Uncle Darrell’s last driving job was his favorite – he drove the medi van and took vets from their homes to the VA Hospital in Fresno. He said the pay was great – it was a free lunch at the hospital. His favorite passengers were always the WWII veterans. Darrell enjoyed listening to the vets, all in their 80’s, visiting with each other while on their trip to the hospital and back home. Darrell isn’t a veteran himself, but he respects and appreciates every veteran and what they do (and have done) for our country. Sadly, in January 2009, Darrell’s driving career ended when he could no longer pass the physical.
I want to thank “Uncle Darrell” for all the work he did in getting information and pictures to me for this story. I wish that we had more room for all the funny stories he shared with me. Darrell Hicks is a great man who has done great things for our industry. Darrell and Melva have two grown children – a daughter named Kirsten Ann and a son named Kristofer, and several grandchildren. To sum it all up, “Uncle Darrell” said it best – “The main goal in life is to represent Our Maker on a daily basis in such a way to help someone else in their walk.” Those are humble words from a humble man. Thank you, Darrell for all you have done. Now go and enjoy your retirement!
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Great story. I loved reading it. Kim you are a talented writer besides being the best cocker mom I know.
Dear Dan & Kim,
The 10-4 Magazines have been received. Thanks so much for sending them so I could share the article about Darrell Hicks with family and friends. Darrell also directed me to the website and I sent the information on to many more family members. One thing I should have mentioned was his musical ability. He had a beautiful singing voice as well as an outstanding ability to lead in congregational singing. Many times he would combine whistling with a vocal solo. He and our sister, Nancy, sang together from about age four and two at church and local nursing homes. They were a cute duo.
I know Darrell appreciated the tribute. He has made hundreds of friends during his “trucking” career and so many of them keep in touch with him regularly which he really enjoys. I spoke with him on his birthday Saturday and he was having trouble talking. I’m not sure what this means but it’s probably not a very positive sign. He has made it to the goal of reaching 70, he has been many places, seen and done lots of things that many only dream about so perhaps it is time for him to rest.
Thanks again for sending the magazines.
Sincerely,
Ardis Meyer
Kim — I’ve known Uncle Darrell for so many years and count him as a good friend. But there was so much in your story that I have never heard, what a wonderful read. Thanks for your efforts digging out all these cool facts and thanks for the hours you spent to bring this to me and all of his friends (and does anybody have as many friends as Uncle Darrell?)
Great article Darrell. I am forwarding this to my brothers. You have been a great friend through the years. Love you. BC
Hi dear friend, Darrell,
You are loved by so many & yet Bill & I feel so special that we have known you since we were all 14 when we met in our freshmen year. I also, have had the joy of celebrating our birthdays every year in May since we are not only the same age but both born on May 7. Remember our big 50th what fun that was. You & Melva have been long time friends our 2 children Pam & Rick, who are now grown as yours are always claimed you as their very own Uncle. We have made it to 70 & now miles apart, you in CA & us retired in AR it is only the phone calls & emails to keep in touch.
Really enjoyed the article thank you Dan & Kim for such a tribute to our friend Darrell. We will be forwarding this on to family & friends.
Love to you Darrell, Melva & the family,
Nancy & Bill
I first met Darrell in the early 1990s. I was new in my job as president of the Arkansas Trucking Association. Darrell was representing a supplier at the time. From our first meeting, he was a source of sage advice and knowledge about this great industry. Years later, he helped our association create a Maintenance & Technology Council and one of the first Technician’s Championships in the country. He is universally liked among his industry peers. If trucking ever names somebody to be its’ ambassador, I nominate Darrell Hicks.
I’ve known Darrell through our work on Trucker Buddy for almost 10 years and he is one of the finest people in the world. Generous, kind, thoughtful, and caring. His leadership and advice kept Trucker Buddy going during hard times and he still attends the Board calls every other month. Kim, you did an excellent job on the article and I especially like the black socks while he was deep sea fishing. :-) Take care Darrell!
Randy Schwartzenburg
Trucker Buddy International
Kim,
This is a very nice article on Uncle Darrell. He truly is the “ambassador” for the American Trucking community. I have had the honor of knowing Uncle Darrell since the mid-1990’s when I first met him in Tucson, AZ at a summer TMC meeting. Uncle Darrell became my mentor within the TMC community and later I served Uncle Darrell during his long term as President of the Board of Directors of Trucker Buddy International. I will always remember Uncle Darrell concluding each of the TBI BOD meetings by providing each of the board members with a small gift such as stamps to send postcard to our classes. He truly was a very unique and loved President.
It is always good to read about Uncle Darrell and I always pick up something new that I did not know before. It was neat to read about Uncle Darrell’s early years as he has not shared that with me in all of our conversations.
I am truly enriched by having Uncle Darrell as my friend and mentor.
Sincerely,
Greg
Partner, Vertical Alliance Group
When I was hired with Trucker Buddy International last year, Uncle Darrell was the first trucker I “met”. He commented on my last name and sent me a visitor guide to the beautiful StJohn Islands along with a personal note welcoming me. When I lost my son in Oct last year he would call and email me to check on me and let me know he was thinking and praying for my family.
Thanks for being my friend Uncle Darrell – I love you!
Debbie StJohn
Trucker Buddy International
Kim,
Thanks for the great article on “Uncle Darrell”. I first met him at my first TMC meeting in 1985 and he is truly a great representative for the trucking community. He gave me the same advice he did Paul Abelson and it has served me well also. Darrell is also known to be a great encourager of people. When I was at a very low place in life he took the time to pick me up and then continued to follow up to make sure I kept my head on straight. He and his family are in our thoughts and prayers.
I am very glad to have Darrell as a friend!
Sincerely,
Mike Bradshaw
Fleetco Trailer Sales
Thanks for all the kind and loving words about my brother. Please keep him in your prayers.
Darrell’s little brother,
Billy Howard
Thanks for the tip on the article. I enjoyed reading it. Thanks for sharing it with me Darrell!
Susan the coach
uncle d and i each recieved our coveted silver spark plug awards from tmc at the same meeting in ’92, and i have worked with him and prayed with him ever since. a great tribute to a great brother; and may many more follow his footsteps demonstrating compassion, understanding and support within our industry.
I have had the privilige to know “Uncle Darrell” thru the trucking business due to my husband having known Darrell. I joined the Trucker Buddy program while teaching 3rd grade, and this program gave my class the great imagination of following our ‘buddy’ around the country. He would send us postcards and letters, and we would track the route with yarn attached to push pins on our map.
Darrell is a personal friend too. He attended the wedding of our daughter, Kara, in Nashville, TN. Always one to be remembered, he had the book FLAT STANLEY with him, and had the bride sign the book! He always has a positive, god-loving message to share and makes all around him feel good.
Darrell continues to be positive, in spite of his health issues, and I pray for him, and am thankful for him.
Brenda Himsel
In the 70’s & 80’s Darrell was my “Nalcool” rep. & mentor. In the 90’s we worked together at Nalco. He always exhibited a quality that only comes from honesty & intergerty. People didn’t always want to hear what Darrell had to say, (usually the upper mgt.), but his problem was that he could only speak the truth – and the dust would settle wherever it had to. Darrell taught me a lot anout the products we sold, about human nature, (+/-), but most of all how to be comfortable with our God. I pray that Darrell will have many years to teach, guide, and be part of his grandchildren’s lives as he has for so many other people. Keep the shinny side up Darrell!
Dear Ms. Grimm.
Thanks so much for your well written tribute to Uncle Darrell, a Doyen of the trucking industry, whom I met while I worked in Peterbilt Motors
Company Customer Service. I must say that I was one of the many blessed recipients of Darrell’s generously dispensed random acts of kindness. He knows I love trains. So, Darrel sends me a train calendar with my birthday date May 19 circled with a “Happy Birthday” wish and a $2 bill! clipped to the month of May.
As a trucking industry professional dealing with Engine Coolants, Darrell is some one I always called upon to help resolve complex and contentious issues. And, he always came through resolving the problem and creating a reservoir of good will.
Darrell has a lot of stories to tell from his long tenure in the trucking industry. I remember him visiting Syria to attend a colleague’s wedding. I saw him dressed in Arab garb in one of the photos he shared of him at a training session. I cracked up when I saw it. With his beard Uncle Darrell , to me, was the personification of a Grand Ayatollah! I called him so for a long time till he retired and, he never objected. He had a good sense of humor.
Darrel, needless to say was very active in TMC. I particularly remember being stirred every time he said the invocation before a main session.
I have not met his family but he talked about them a lot from which I know he is a very devoted dad and grandaddy.
Despite his health challenge, Darrell does not fail to send me an occasional e-mail to keep in touch and as he always evokes warmth. I limit my calls to him so he can conserve his energy.
I have very pleasant memories of my professional and personal association with Uncle Darrell. I want to again thank you Ms. Grimm for your tribute to a very dear colleague and popular friend to many in the trucking industry.
I close with my respectful regards to Uncle Darrell and his wife and my prayers for his wellness.
Sincerely,
Redmond M. David
Love you, Darrell,
Rod
Oh Uncle Darrell! No one compares to him. I am the manager of the local FedEx Office located in his current town, Tulare CA. Every time he comes to visit us, this amazing feeling of comfort fills all of our hearts. He says hello to every single person that walks in that door. There is no doubt in my mind that he has a special place in everyones heart that has met him. I just got off the phone with him, he wanted me to see this website, at the end of our conversation, he said “I just want you to know how special you truly are”. There are not too many people that really express their feelings anymore. Thank you Uncle Darrell, for your constant smile, humor, loyalty and upmost respect. You truly are a blessing.Love you forever!
P.S Your children are so lucky to have an amazing father like you.
Darrell is one of the most generous people you will ever meet. I met him over ten years ago when I join the board of Trucker Buddy. I had the good fortune to be able to present him with a TMC award one year in Florida and that afternoon Darrell and I took a ride in the Goodyear Blimp. How fun and what an experience.
One time Darrell and I had dinner at a restaurant in Iowa and when the hostess asked for a name, he said we were, “two wonderful people.” When they called for us on the speaker, everyone turned to see who the “two wonderful people” were who were being seated!
Kim, thanks for a great article on one of the most wonderful people in the trucking industry.
Ellen Voie
I met Brother Darrell in 2008 at MATS. We sat and talked for a couple of hours. I recognized immediately what a special human being he is. Since that time we are in the same email prayer group and I have am blessed everytime he sends out a prayer. I pray daily that he will be with us the next day to share his thoughts and prayers. We love you “Uncle, Brother Darrell”!
Uncle Darrell has never failed to bring a smile to my face. He always has an amusing story to tell. And he cares more about others than himself.
There’s a big reason why everyone calls him “Uncle Darrell”, it’s because he treats everyone like family. As long as I’ve known Darrell, he’s always had something inspirational or amusing to say. Darrell, Don’ forget, Matt #17.
Great article Kim. I’ve known Darrell for close to 25 years. Trucking could not have a better ambassador than Darrell. But more importantly, Darrell sets the standard for how people should treat one another. He never takes anyone for granted and is truly one of the best people I have ever met.
He has not been to a TMC meeting since he has taken ill and he is sorely missed.
Darrell is one of a kind — he is irreplaceable. And I only hope that he is dealing with his current difficulty with the same optimism and courage he brings to any of life’s challenges. He’s an example to us all in how we should live our lives.
Carl Kirk – TMC Executive Director
Darrell, you know how to be a friend. I met you at Cedar Lake Academy in the 50’s and have kept in touch ever since. You know all my family and they love you and wish you well. Thanks for all the weekends you spent with us and for that lovely song you wrote last month about our daughter, Erin, who died in May. It’s that kind of love that makes this a better place. You are one of the heros I have known. Love to you, LeRoi
Beautiful article about a truly beautiful friend, colleague and mentor. At last month’s TMC meeting in Raleigh we were able to trade stories and updates about Uncle Darrell, which helped take the edge off the fact the we miss him very much. Our friendship now extends back over twenty years of industry meetings, and as much as I learned from him, in the professional sense, it is the mutual encouragement and fellowship that I will continue to cherish. Our prayers are with you Darrell, enjoy your season of rest and reflection. We love you!! – John Adami, Bellevue WA